Recently I encountered an old nemesis–long thought dead–Attachment Anxiety. Heretofore generally called Separation Anxiety, but I want to differentiate that from Attachment Anxiety.
I found myself wanting to be in a relationship that was clearly not good for me, and not working, and originally not wanted, but then the old nemesis of being rejected made […]
The Sacred Wound is the destruction of the old , the comfortable, the cherished before our very eyes of all that we have loved and cherished and from which we sought succor. Our primary nipples in our adult life: joy, laughter, color, sunshine, the children we loved, the parents we hated, the job we […]
Does this mean I have to go alone? Step off the cliff all by myself… Actually it does. You have to make your own decisions, go it alone and face the consequences good or bad. You better have your head together on a daily basis to be ready for the tough decisions of life, […]
This quote is so great, I am speechless for a while. So, learning from your mistakes is the way? Must ponder and get back to you. TSW
Okay, back. The problem with that is we are mortal, and will run out of lifetime taking endless paths to happiness–learning is good, but draining our energies fruitless […]
Firstly, I don’t believe you. But secondly this is a great jumping off place.
Where is the Sacred Wound when all is going well, no problems, I’m good. That is a time to ask the next forward leaning question. What is missing…Is it time to up my game…Am I overlooking something.
Do I need to move […]
Do we reward ourselves? Do we punish ourselves? Or are we paralyzed? Is it to buy love, or to protect ourselves from no love, or do we not love others, for fear that they will need something from us. How do we march forward in life with our own private bag of hurts.
First of […]
…So across my computer comes a video clip with Jane Fonda speaking of her own journey—
“It’s important for human beings to fail in every aspect of their life, because it’s the only way to learn. If all you do is succeed it is hard to learn (life’s lessons). (God) doesn’t come into us through […]
